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This Skill Changes Every Conversation
Unlock the secret to better understanding others...
Justin Mecham
May 17, 2025
Hey Full Potential Zoners!
The strongest person in the room— is the one who stays calm.
We often let our emotions take over.
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Use my sheet to respond with calm.
Choose your response.
Own your outcome.
Build a life of peace.
Build a life of power.
Today we are going to help leaders master this by using:
‘Respond, Don’t React - The Secret to Not Taking Things Personally'.
Let’s dive in!
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Real Workplace Scenarios to Use the SHIELD Method
1. When a Client Gives You Negative Feedback in an Email (S – Separate)
Scenario: A client says they’re unhappy with your team’s work and questions your professionalism.
Take a deep breath and remind yourself this is not a personal attack.
Read the email twice:
Once emotionally, once logically.
Separate your sense of self from the work.
Write down the facts and next steps, not the tone.
Respond by calmly asking how you can correct the issue.
2. When a Teammate Interrupts You Repeatedly (H – Hear)
Scenario: You’re sharing ideas in a meeting and someone keeps talking over you.
Resist the urge to snap back.
Tell yourself:
“They may not even realize they’re doing it.”
Calmly say, “I’d like to finish my thought.”
Stay on track without raising your voice.
Later, privately ask them to be mindful in future meetings.
3. When You’re Left Off an Important Email Thread (I – Interpret)
Scenario: A project moves forward without your input because you weren’t copied on emails.
Pause. Don’t assume you were purposely excluded.
Ask yourself:
“Could this have been an oversight?”
Approach your manager or colleague to ask for an update.
Let them know you want to stay aligned going forward.
Keep your focus on the project, not the slight.
4. When Your Boss Gives Vague, Unclear Instructions (E – Evaluate)
Scenario: You’re frustrated because your manager keeps changing direction without explanation.
Don’t internalize it as incompetence on your part.
Remind yourself:
“This is about their communication style.”
Ask clarifying questions:
“What’s the top priority?”
Get specifics in writing if possible.
Focus on doing the next best step you can control.
5. When Coworkers Gossip or Complain About Leadership (L – Let Go)
Scenario: You overhear a group complaining about decisions your team made.
Resist the pull to defend or join the negativity.
Tell yourself:
“Their frustration doesn’t belong to me.”
Walk away or change the subject politely.
Focus on your role and the people you directly serve.
Remind yourself gossip says more about them than you.
6. When Your Proposal Gets Rejected by Senior Leadership (D – Decide)
Scenario: You worked hard on a plan that gets shot down without much explanation.
Acknowledge your disappointment, but don’t take it as a personal failure.
Tell yourself:
“Rejection is part of the process, not a reflection of my worth.”
Decide to take what you’ve learned and improve the idea.
Ask for feedback:
“What would have made this stronger?”
Stay professional and keep contributing with confidence.
Daily Challenge
Pick one part of the SHIELD method you want to work on today.
When a frustrating or awkward moment happens, pause for just 3 seconds.
Silently say to yourself, “I choose to respond, not react.”
Take a deep breath before speaking or replying.
Remind yourself: “Their words or actions do not define me.”
After the moment passes, write one sentence about what happened.
Write down what you did differently because you paused. That small pause is where your growth happens.
AI Prompt to use: “You are my personal coach for handling hard conversations calmly. Today, I want to focus on this SHIELD skill: [insert your skill choice]. Give me one practical step to use and one short sentence I can say to myself when I start to feel reactive.”
You are not the story others tell.
Not every comment or action directed at you defines who you are.
Emotions are messengers, not masters.
People's reactions often reflect their own experiences and struggles.
By choosing to respond thoughtfully, you maintain control over your narrative.
Your worth isn't determined by others' opinions or behaviors.
Remember, you have the power to define your own story.
Until next time and with lots of love,
Justin
The Story That Sparked This Edition
💡 Book to Read
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“How Not to Take Things Personally” by Frederik Imbo (see it here)
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