Never Do This In Difficult Conversations

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Difficult conversations don’t have to go wrong.

The problem?

Most people react too fast.

They let emotions take over— and things get worse.

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Disagreements aren’t failures— they are turning points.

The right words can open doors instead of closing them.

A well-handled conversation builds trust that lasts.

Today we are going to help leaders master this by using the:

‘Difficult Conversations - How To Stay Calm When It Counts'. 

Let’s dive in!

Mastering Difficult Conversations with CALM

Addressing Workplace Conflicts

Scenario: A team member's repeated late submissions are affecting the project timeline.

Applying CALM:

• Center:

  • Pause and take a deep breath to clear your mind before responding.

• Active Listening:

  • Allow the team member to explain their side without interruption.

• Logic Over Emotion:

  • Focus on the facts: the missed deadlines and their impact on the project.

• Mindful Speaking:

  • Use clear and respectful language to discuss the issue and find a solution. Say something like, "I noticed the delays and want to discuss how we can resolve this together."

Handling Customer Complaints

Scenario: A customer is upset about a defective product and demands a quick resolution.

Applying CALM:

• Center:

  • Stay calm and composed, even if the customer is angry.

• Active Listening:

  • Let the customer express their frustration fully.

• Logic Over Emotion:

  • Understand the problem and think of a fair solution.

• Mindful Speaking:

  • Communicate the steps you will take to resolve the issue clearly and promptly, like "Let’s work on a replacement or refund for you."

Navigating Difficult Workplace Conversations

Scenario: You need to give constructive feedback to a colleague who is not meeting expectations.

Applying CALM:

• Center:

  • Prepare yourself mentally to approach the conversation with a positive attitude.

• Active Listening:

  • Encourage your colleague to share their perspective and listen without judgment.

• Logic Over Emotion:

  • Discuss specific examples of where expectations are not being met and the impact on the team.

• Mindful Speaking:

  • Offer suggestions for improvement and express your support for their development. Say something like "I believe you have great potential, and I'd like to support you in meeting expectations more effectively”.

Leading a Team Through Change

Scenario: The company is introducing a new software system, and the team is hesitant to adopt it.

Applying CALM:

• Center:

  • Take a moment to calm yourself. Acknowledge that change takes time, and not everyone will adjust at the same pace.

• Active Listening:

  • Open a conversation with the team and really listen to their feedback.

• Logic Over Emotion:

  • Focus on the reasons behind the change. Explain how it will benefit the team and outline clear steps to make the transition smoother.

• Mindful Speaking:

  • Use clear, supportive language that encourages teamwork: "I know this change may be difficult, but let’s talk about why it’s necessary and how we can make it work together."

The moment you feel defensive is the moment you need to pause.

Conversations built on logic, not emotion, lead to solutions.

Staying in control of yourself keeps the discussion on track.

Your words should reflect your goals, not your frustration.

How you handle tough moments is how people will remember you.

Until next time and with lots of love,

Justin

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